A few weeks ago I quoted Gandhi – “You must be the change you want to see in the world.” That quote is similar to what a coach once told me that distills down to “be who you want to be.” His premise was if you want to move up in the organization, you need to look and act like the people you want to associate with. So, if in your organization management wears ties, you should wear a tie. If management reads “strategic business stuff” you should write “strategic business stuff”. I think you get the picture.
This first struck me as sucking up – as being disingenuous – as putting on a mask that covered who I really was and instead made me look like someone else. It sounded like playing politics. But the more I’ve thought about it, maybe there is some truth in what he said.
We all like people or are like us – it’s human nature. So, it makes sense that if you are trying to build a reputation – or a brand – with people above you in the organization they are more likely to want to associate with you and thereby give you the opportunity to show what you know if they feel you are “like” them. You can build credibility simply by the people you associate with – aka affinity marketing.
So the advice was, if you want to be seen as an expert in your field, it will help if you a) look like an expert, b) talk and write like an expert and c) associate with other experts. It makes perfect sense, right?
But the counter-culture lover in me says – why can’t they respect me for who I am? How can I express my style, my feelings, and my personality and still fit into their image of what I’m supposed to be? Why can’t an irreverent, sarcastic, laid back guy be perceived as an expert by “Type A” executives?
Therein lies the conundrum for you to ponder over the weekend. Who are you, and who do you want to be? Better yet – what do you want to achieve professionally? If you desire to move up in your organization is your current “brand” making that more difficult? Is there value in “getting along to go along” and then letting your style leak back out after you’ve gained their respect? It’s not about pandering, or being untrue, or sucking up, but maybe it is about how you are perceived and how much energy you should put into managing that perception.
Something to think about … and I’d appreciate hearing what you have to say on this subject.
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